I love budgeting. To me, it isn't about putting the screws on but it's a plan for spending your money in an intentional way.
I hate the idea of being frugal just for its own sake. But when a budget can tell me I spent less than I thought needed for a boring category like the light bill and can tell me the exact amount of money left over, that gets exciting. I'd rather spend money on something fun like tech or new clothes than dish soap and utility bills.
I think part of the secret is to budget a comfortable amount so you can live without a ton of pressure. Then it's fun to be careful and keep your eye on the ball cause there will be a prize when the bill comes and/or the next pay period rolls around.
I hate the idea of being frugal just for its own sake. But when a budget can tell me I spent less than I thought needed for a boring category like the light bill and can tell me the exact amount of money left over, that gets exciting. I'd rather spend money on something fun like tech or new clothes than dish soap and utility bills.
I think part of the secret is to budget a comfortable amount so you can live without a ton of pressure. Then it's fun to be careful and keep your eye on the ball cause there will be a prize when the bill comes and/or the next pay period rolls around.